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Bittersweet Revelation | The Complete ACOA Sourcebook: Adult Children of Alcoholics at Home, at Work and in Love | Janet G. Woititz

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	• The Complete ACOA Sourcebook: Adult Children of Alcoholics at Home, at Work and in Love Janet G. Woititz HCI, 2002 - 413 pages average customer review:based on 10 reviews view larger image
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highly recommended

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I am a therapist specializing in the field of alcoholism. I recommend this book first for adults raised in alcoholic families. One client told me, "this is the story of my life", and he is twenty years old. She nailed it. This is invaluable information.

ACoA's are truly our own breed

Adult children of Alcoholics are the same as we are at home, at work and in love. We are a breed of our own with many stumbles along the road to reality. I often wondered why I could start so many projects and yet abandon them long before completion, and why I never understood what normal was, taking myself and life too seriously and struggling to find appropriate levels of intimacy in all of my relationships.

Author Janet Woititz leaves no stone unturned, no symptom or characteristic of an Adult Child unexamined. The book is divided into three parts based on its subtitle: How ACoA's function at home, at work and in love. Each part begins with a personal message from the author as if she takes the reader by the hand to offer validation and to lead us bravely through to the next section.

There is even a chapter called "So You Love an ACoA" for those of us whose partners still totally don't understand what we survived.

Regarding the ACoA at work, Woititz discusses our tendency towards workaholism, burnout and the subtle sabotage we may create in our jobs. A variety of professions are disected: medical student, priest, foreman, counselor, supervisor, caregiver or any employee according to how the profession relates to the ACoA, what we need to look out for and how what we've been through grants us the knowledge of how to succeed in our chosen professions. The tail end of the book even features valuable guidance for Employee Assistance programs.

This book is filled with several "Aha!" moments for me (especially Chapter 2 "What Happened to You as a Child?" and Chapter 3, "Breaking the Cycle.") I recommend its timeless information to any adult who grew up with an alcoholic parent or any form of dysfunction.

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Bittersweet Revelation

As someone who neither understood what was happening growing up, nor realized the damage that had been done, this book was a life saver. Because my childhood was nothing extreme (I wasn't abused or neglected) when I bought it I wasn't convinced I really needed it. After six months of collecting dust, I finally picked it up and quickly found myself in the middle of a full on (and much needed) psychological overhaul. It's amazing to me now how many things I'd never considered that now seem painfully obvious.

It brought my childhood into perspective simply by explaining the alternatives that never occurred to me. The emotional/psychological problems that I'd struggled with for years now have explanations. It explains that most of my day-to-day struggles are either a result of the examples that were set during childhood (or lack there of) or survival skills (now habits) that were necessary while growing up in an alcoholic household, but are no longer functional. For the first time I can look back and replay those childhood memories within the context of "Mom/Dad had a problem; I did not deserve to be treated that way."

While it is a bit repetitious (as some of the other reviews claim) for someone who is trying to break habits and change thought patterns that have been the norm for years, a little repetition is a good thing. It covers absolutely everything and it's a huge relief to finally get a handle on it all. It's painful to read at times as it opens old wounds and even creates some new ones, but overall it was life changing. A 400 page "Ah-ha" moment.

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Covers Everything

Different from Woitiz's other books, this on covers the range of what could possibly be "wrong with" you. Before this series, it was impossible to figure out "what happened." Considering most adult children are highly functional, therapists are generally clueless. They don't believe you when you tell them you don't know or understand how or why other human beings work they way they do, or how to get what you want out of them (or when to go to another source!!) This book gets it. It also has a few extras/revisions/explanations that are not included in the separate editions, but make it a more useful book.

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From one of the movement's most respected leaders, the complete resource for Adult Children of Alcoholics.

When they were first released in the 1980s, Janet Woititz's groundbreaking works, Adult Children of Alcoholics, Struggle for Intimacy and The Self-Sabotage Syndrome, provided a new message of hope to adult children who had grown up in the shadow of alcoholic parents. Their message today is as profound and timeless as it was two decades ago.

Now, in this complete collection, readers will learn again the insight and healing power of Janet Wotitiz's words. The Complete ACoA Sourcebook is a compilation of three of Dr. Woititz's classic books, addressing head-on the symptoms of The Adult Children of Alcoholics syndrome and providing strategies for living a normal life as an adult. Readers will find help for themselves: at home, in intimate relationships and on the job. They will discover the reasons for the way they think, believe and feel about themselves; ACoAs often feel isolated, have difficulty in relationships, in the workplace and in feeling good about themselves.

Readers who are familiar with Woititz's work will find wisdom once again in this classic collection. Those new to ACoA will gain fresh insight into their behavior patterns and find an avenue for self-love and healing. Noted ACoA expert Dr. Robert Ackerman, author of the best-selling Perfect Daughters and Silent Sons, provides a foreword and explains why Janet Woititz's message will continue to help millions of readers for generations to come.

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