Deserving of a head shake and a sigh | Such Good Boys: The True Story of a Mother, Two Sons and a...

Such Good Boys | Such Good Boys: The True Story of a Mother, Two Sons and a Horrifying Murder | Tina Dirmann

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	• Such Good Boys: The True Story of a Mother, Two Sons and a Horrifying Murder Tina Dirmann St. Martin's Paperbacks, 2005 - 256 pages average customer review:based on 29 reviews view larger image
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Good read

I received my order within a couple of days, very fast shipping. The book itself was a great read. Would recommend this book to anyone.

Deserving of a head shake and a sigh

The two boys had every reason to do what they did, and if they had looked or acted remorseful during that time, it would have been to their benefit. But no, page 186 describes Jason telling another inmate that he killed his mother, grinning about it the entire time. What did he expect? That they wouldn't consider him a threat to society if he acted like that? Then there's the unfortunate fact that this young man was 18, and considered an adult, who could have gone out into the ring and taken the legal system on himself for custody of his brother.

I agree that this story is tragic for many reasons. First of all, because someone should have taken custody away from the mother, she was in no shape to be raising two teenage boys. Even their father sort of backed out after he left her and sort of saved himself. If anyone had made a case out of this, I doubt any judge would have left two boys with a mother who is obviously and unmistakably mentally ill.

The other reason this story is tragic is the fact that it ended with murder. The children's mother was very sick and someone should have tried to get her help, instead of treating her like she had full mental capacity and holding her responsible for her actions. She probably did not mean to hurt the boys the way she did, but she was terrified every day herself of millions of formulated threats and being stalked by "the henchmen of Duncan Sheik." She was scared, in some ways really a victim herself, and she needed to be in the care of a psychiatrist and on some kind of medication that might have aided her in living a normal life.

And however much she tormented and abused her sons, in the end, she also wasn't the one who committed murder.

So while this book demonstrates a complete lack of regard from the entire world on the abusive situation the boys were forced to deal with for years, it also demonstrates a lack of regard and compassion regarding a woman who was seriously mentally ill, by no fault of her own, that no one bothered to aid or care about until it was too late.

I think Jason's punishment was apt. Matthew, however, really does deserve a second chance at life.

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Such Good Boys

Such Good Boys: The True Story of a Mother, Two Sons and a Horrifying Murder

This story is very frustrating because several people knew this mother had mental problems and did't try to get help for her or her children.

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MOMMY DEAREST...

This is a well-written, gripping true crime tale. I simply could not put the book down! It is a tragic story that is profoundly sad, as it deals with the murder of a woman, Jane Bautista, by her older son, Jason Bautista, with the knowledge and blessing of the younger one, Matt Montejo. Jane Bautista was mentally ill, and they simply could no longer deal with her erratic and frightening behavior. Jason's regrettable act was one that he deluded himself into thinking would restore normalcy into his and his brother's lives, only to find that his young life would never be normal as a result.

The book lays out the pattern of the children's lives over the years, living with a mother that had, undoubtedly, developed paranoid schizophrenia in her early adulthood. Her behavior was erratic, frightening, and totally paranoid. Although she came into contact with adults, including her own family, displaying frightening, irrational, and peculiar behavior, no one did anything or notified anyone to intervene in what certainly must have been a very difficult situation with which to cope for her poor children. Their life was anything but normal.

The Deputy District Attorney who tried the case seemed to be totally without compassion, seeking the maximum penalty for this murder. He saw it simply in black and white terms. It is true, however, that Jason, who was about twenty years old at the time of the murder, could have sought outside help or simply left the household instead of murdering his mother in cold blood. Instead, he not only killed her but chose to dispose of her remains in a way that shocks the conscience. Although given his home life, it is difficult to expect him to have been totally rational. Yet, there is simply no way one can condone what he did. Still, one cannot help but feel that the criminal justice system dealt with Jason over harshly, given the context out of which his actions arose.

This is an excellent true crime book, three dimensional in the telling and well-researched. It is certainly one that aficionados of the genre will greatly enjoy reading.

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Interesting but not outstanding

This book held my attention, mostly because is involves a mentally ill mother and the outcome of her illness. It does not delve deeply, though, into the mental illness issue or the investigation of her murder.

AN ABUSIVE MOTHER
Raised in the suburb of Riverside, California, twenty-year-old college student Jason Bautista endured for years his emotionally disturbed mother?s verbal and psychological abuse. She even locked him out of the house, tied him up with electrical cord, and on one occasion, gave him a beating that sent him to the emergency room. His fifteen-year-old half brother Matthew Montejo also was a victim to Jane Bautista?s dark mood swings and erratic behavior, but for some reason, Jason received the brunt of the abuse?until he decided he?d had enough?

A SON?S REVENGE
On the night of January 14, 2003, Jason strangled his mother. To keep authorities from identifying her body, he chopped off her head and hands, an idea he claimed he got from watching an episode of the hit TV series ?The Sopranos.? Matthew would later testify in court that he sat in another room in the house with the TV volume turned up while Jason murdered their mother. He also testified that he drove around with Jason to find a place to dump Jane?s torso.

A CRIME THAT WOULD BOND TWO BROTHERS
The morning following the murder, Matthew went to school, and Jason returned to his classes at Cal State San Bernardino. When authorities zeroed in on them, Jason lied and said that Jane had run off with a boyfriend she?d met on the Internet. But when police confronted the boys with overwhelming evidence, Jason confessed all. Now the nightmare was only just beginning for him?

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